I am 35 yrs old bachelor male from Calcutta,India and I cant marry yet as I am not established .Still I am studying without a job. Actually I left my job. Where I study(I am doing a very short-term computer course along with my distance MBA) I have no female batchmates or even if there are they are either committed or they are not attracted to me!!
But problem is, I can't control my sexual urges and I have even developed male boobs. I am not Gay and I am strongly attracted to good looking attractive women particularly single women.
My problems are I don't have a girlfriend, neither I am good-looking or attractive. Ya I am obese too .
BUT I AM WORKING OUT IN GYM AND ALSO AT HOME WITH PUSH-UPS.
Now my main problem is though I am afraid till date to approach any girl or women I like in the road ,I feel like going to them and saying that "Will you please accompany me to a movie?"
Is that a right way to approach?
I particularly feel bad when I see good-looking girls or women showing affection to their boyfriends .
It really makes me sad and jealous at the same time.
No female seems to be attracted to me though I see a lot of unemployed young guys doing romance/dating their girlfriends in the park and OMG these girls are so sexy and attractive. It makes my co** stand-up but then again it cries in pain.
Please tell me how to make friends with girls or young unmarried women below 30 in the street?|||Join a mixed club or gym and try to develop female acquaintance, you will succeed.|||You have to become a secure person.
Right now, you sound like a horny creep. No woman will come near you with that self image. Work hard in school, at your job, and at the gym, and develop a personality before you approach any woman; and NEVER approach a woman on the street.|||The best way to talk to women is to do just that. Talk to women that you meet at school, the gym or anywhere. Just start a conversation and if you guys have something in common then ask her on a date or for her phone number.|||you seem to be isolated and aloof.you need to raise your self-esteem else no girl will be attracted towards you.i am not discouraging you but believe me if you start living your life and love yourself ,,everyone will start loving you.good luck.|||No comments.|||Read hanuman chalisa|||i find this easy to masturbate to.|||bad question by any means|||hey bhav,lagan karun tak.|||date your age find a woman with common interests|||come to Canada we would show you how its done|||Just be involved with a lot of different activities. For example, go to your church, your school, art classes, sports. Work at enjoying and doing your best at these activities and just be yourself. People will start talking to you and you will know what to do.
If you ask a girl out it is better to get to know them first. You can't just ask someone you don't know or they will freak out. So find a way to get to know them as friends in non-threatening ways. The rest will take care of itself.
Don't tell any girls you're horny.|||Sorry to say, you have complex regarding your appearance which happens at times in a human's life.First of all stop worrying or being desperate.Build up your self esteem.Go to gym,take care of health,develop your skill/interests.Its not 'looks' that attract women.A good personality is essential.Way of talk,perspective about life,optimism do attract people.Lack of job may be a drawback 'cuz women look for financially stable men.So work on that.Approach women in a casual friendly way.Socialise with people and you may come across someone unknowingly.All the best.|||You're going to creep out anyone if you just randomly walk up to them and ask them to accompany you to a movie- no matter how casusal your approach is!
You need to STOP for a second and take a breath. You say your not good looking, your over weight, you dont have a job so how about first before anything else you work on YOU and BETTERING yourself!
Lose weight, go to the gym- you will meet people through this! Eat healthier, dress better- get some advice! Try and find a job- you will feel like there is more of a purpose to your day!
But better yourself inside and out! Then it shouldnt be too long until you meet someone!
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